I am so sick of people telling me or anyone else to be strong for the sake of others when faced by a tragic situation. Like excuse you but I’m allowed to be fragile and I’m allowed to be breakable for the sake of myself. I’m allowed to scream, shout and be weak because otherwise you’re just telling me to hold it in and that’s going to break me even more on the long run! I just hope people realize that when you go through something that’s very devastating and heartbreaking, do not, I repeat, do NOT try to be strong for other people. It is OKAY to be fragile, it is okay to be weak, it is okay to be broken as long as you pick yourself back up later on. Let it out, scream, shout, cry, hit, break glass, do whatever you got to do to let it out and then take a deep breath and pick yourself back up.
It is okay to be fragile. It’s okay.